FAQ
Program Overview, Credentials & Training Path
Implementation, Facilitation & Real-World Practice
What is the difference between Nurturing Families Center™ (NFC) and Nurturing Parenting Program (NPP)?
Over the past 30 years, millions of agencies and individuals worldwide have participated in the Nurturing Parenting Program (NPP) initiative. Under this initiative, multiple authors have developed various parenting curricula.
In 2015, Sonya Thorn, principal author of Nurturing Families™ 2nd Edition, and Dr. Stephen Bavolek, principal author of the Adult Adolescent Parenting Inventory (AAPI), jointly authored Nurturing Program for Families with Children 5–19 (commonly referred to as Nurturing Families 1st Edition). The focus of this edition was to update older curricula serving families from birth through age 19.
Pilot sites included state child welfare and mental health departments in multiple states. Participants who completed the program demonstrated improvements in overall functioning and parenting effectiveness.
Since then, Nurturing Families™ 2nd Edition has continued to evolve and now includes more trauma-informed lessons, stronger structure, increased cultural responsiveness, and expanded post-training fidelity support. Sonya Thorn is no longer affiliated with Family Development Resources (FDR), which is a marketing and publishing company under the NPP initiative. As the principal author, Sonya Thorn is the sole distributor of Nurturing Families™ training and materials through the Nurturing Families Center.
See how Nurturing Families Curriculum has evolved over the years
What empowered Sonya Thorn to develop Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™?
Thank you for asking. I enjoy answering this question. I was previously in direct partnership with Dr. Stephen Bavolek/Family Development Resources for almost 30 years. I will continue to be part of the Nurturing Parenting Program initiative and update the curriculum as needed to meet the needs of today’s families. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have always wanted to do more to support families and empower them in their role as parents. After being trained and licensed in various family therapies and Family/Parenting Education programs, I came across Dr. Stephen Bavolek’s (Dr. B.) research early in my career. I first became a Facilitator in 1992. Over the years, many have been inspired by Dr. B’s research.
Dr. B gave every trainer a strong message to take his program to all corners of the world. He encouraged many to modify, update, reproduce, and create updated work. For this reason, in 2012 and through a joint venture, Dr. Bavolek and I authored the Nurturing Families 5-19, 1st edition, which was first sold in five states. While restructuring my company during the era of two significant pandemics (COVID-19 and Racism), I updated our joint work to meet better the needs of today’s families and facilitators, who are now working virtually. I have now developed Nurturing Families 2nd Edition in both English and Spanish (Criando Familias), which can be implemented on various platforms for parents of children of all ages.
What is the difference between NPP-Nurturing Families™ Certified Trainers and NPP-Family Development Resources/FNC Trainers?
Both types of trainers are under the world-wide Nurturing Parenting Program initiative. To be a Nurturing Families™ Certified Trainer, you must go through an 18-hour Facilitator Training, implement Nurturing Families™ for at least 2 years, and then go through a Training of Trainers (TOT) exclusively provided through the Nurturing Families Center™.
A Nurturing Families™ certification is a stronger testament to the continuing education of licensed professionals, family partners, youth workers, parent educators, and adult/family peer support providers. Stay updated, do the hard work, and you should have a certification to recognize that.
Nurturing Families™ 2nd Edition includes everything in the 1st edition Nurturing Families 5-19, co-authored by Dr. Stephen Bavolek and Sonya Thorn, plus updated materials for families with children of all ages.
Nurturing Families™ Trainers are certified through the Nurturing Families Center™ and can implement sessions based on the most up-to-date Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™.
Family Development Resources (Nurturing Parenting Programs) facilitators and trainers receive recognition for attending a 3-day training (Attendance Certificate, not a Certification). Certifications can only be issued by curriculum developers/authors, universities, and community colleges.
What exact curriculum do we need to implement Nurturing Families™ 2nd Edition™ to fidelity?
To implement the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ with fidelity, you will need to purchase two manuals.
First is the Facilitator Implementation Manual, priced at $175.00. The cost and access to the manual are now included (as of 2021) in your 18-hour Facilitator Certification training.
Second, you or your agency will need to purchase an annual license for the Family Workbook, which was previously known as the Parent Handbook. The Family workbook ranges from $175.00-$750.00 per year, depending on agency size. All implementation materials are in electronic document format, which you will access instantly through an email notification.
The core content includes everything from the 1st Edition NPP-Nurturing Families 5-19, authored by Dr. Bavolek and Sonya Thorn. The Nurturing Families 2nd Edition has been updated to meet the current societal needs of families, and is now delivered virtually, featuring more up-to-date content on mental health, substance abuse, and domestic violence. The curriculum was also created through a trauma-informed lens.
Do we need to use the Adult Adolescent Parenting Inventory (AAPI), developed by Dr. Stephen Bavolek, as an evaluation instrument to ensure fidelity in implementing Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™?
No, it is not necessary, but it is always the consumer’s choice.
We have received so much feedback from agencies and providers that the AAPI is outdated, and the Spanish is more obsolete than the English. Like anything else developed in the 80s and updated in the 90s, to be effective, the questions must undergo the rigor of research or updates. Otherwise, after many years, families will outgrow the inventory. This is precisely what has happened with the AAPI. This once-amazing instrument, which most of us value, must undergo significant updates and rigorous research to maintain its effectiveness. The changes from 2.1 to 2.5 are primarily demographic changes related to gender, rather than updates to the questions that require changes.
We have updated our Nurturing Families™ Facilitator Trainings to provide the necessary tools for collecting data directly from constituent families and to teach facilitators how to monitor ongoing progress.
We would also like to inform you that Sonya Thorn has developed pre- and post-assessments for the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ program. The beauty of families is that they, like society, are constantly changing. We must not be stagnant!
What is the most popular/common training?
By far, the Certified Nurturing Families Facilitator Training, fidelity Implementation Booster, TOT (Training of Trainers), and trauma-informed practice are the most popular trainings.
Does this program work just as well with one person as it does with a group?
Absolutely! Nurturing Families 2nd Edition has been developed to work with diverse families in group settings, home visitation, clinic-based settings, and/or through an online platform. The best part about it is that you only need two implementation manuals!
In the COVID-19 era, what changes have been made to your curriculum?
Our curriculum has been updated to reflect all necessary changes, including content, purchasing information, and training and support for our certified facilitators and trainers.
What has been the most challenging part of training virtually?
The hardest part is not being able to nurture attendees in the same way as we usually do. However, the training and implementation of Nurturing Families remains highly practical, even through a virtual platform. We are now being asked to be creative in a different way. Exercising creativity is essential when working on this project.
After completing the Facilitator Training, what is the next training you recommend I take to advance in this career?
Most importantly, maintain your affiliation with our Center by regularly visiting our website. Visit our current events page periodically and attend the virtual annual recertification & fidelity conference, held every November (second week of November). After two years in excellent standing and becoming well-versed in implementing Nurturing Families™ directly to families, I invite you to sign up to attend a Training of Trainers (TOT). After meeting all the requirements, you can become a certified organizational/agency trainer.
What kind of support can I expect from you after completing the training?
Nurturing Families Center certifies facilitators and trainers, enabling us to continue serving and addressing the ongoing implementation needs of frontline providers and leadership. We do not charge you for added support. We only charge for added service. This means that you can contact us whenever you need us, and we will support you throughout this journey, enabling you to continue serving families with quality services. You can always contact us with questions or comments. We also provide facilitator coach sessions, fidelity audits, and consultation services as added services.
When you update your training, do you notify the trainee that there’s an updated course available?
NEEDS UPDATED CONTENT: Yes, you can find all updates on our “Current Events” page. We will also provide updates annually at the recertification conference. Remember, you can always contact us or leave a question on the form above.
What are the requirements to keep my certification current?
To keep your certification current, attend the annual recertification and fidelity virtual conference, held every November (typically the 2nd week of November). The other requirement is to implement the curriculum as much as possible to stay well-versed in the content.
When I become a Nurturing Families™ Certified Trainer whom will I be allowed to train?
Before you can train others at your designated agency, you must first be a Certified Facilitator for two years. During these two years as a facilitator, you must be implementing the curriculum with fidelity directly with families. You will then attend a Training of Trainers (TOT) and, after meeting all the requirements of a trainer, you will be certified as an Organizational Trainer for Nurturing Families™. This designation enables you to train facilitators within your agency on the art and skills of being a Nurturing Families Facilitator.
How do I obtain the Nurturing Families™ Facilitator Manual?
- All facilitators are required to attend the initial three-day Facilitator Certification Training, which includes the Facilitator Implementation Manual at a cost of $175.00. Participants receive access to this manual prior to the training.
- The three-day training equips facilitators with the knowledge and skills necessary to implement the Nurturing Families™ Intervention with fidelity. The manual is exclusively available through participation in the training and cannot be purchased separately.
- To remain active, facilitators must attend the Annual Fidelity Recertification Conference. Failure to do so requires discontinuation of the manual’s use in accordance with copyright law.
Does my agency have to pay for the Facilitator Manual and Familiy Workbook License seperately?
Yes. The Facilitator Manual and the Family Workbook License are billed separately. The Facilitator Manual must be purchased before the training, while the Family Workbook License is an annual recurring fee. We offer both the Facilitator Manual and the Family Workbook in English and Spanish. The Family Workbook License is also available separately for English and Spanish materials.
What is the Nurturing Families™ famiiy workbook license?
The Nurturing Families™ Family Workbook License is an annual licensure that allows your agency to make unlimited copies of the Family Workbook for all of the families you serve at a lower cost than individually purchasing the family workbook for each parent/family.
How often does my agency need to pay for the Family Workbook License?
The Nurturing Families™ Family Workbook License is a yearly cost that is calculated based on the number of certified staff implementing Nurturing Families™ Curriculum.
Who does the license cover?
All facilitators can work under one agency license. Every agency is required to purchase the license for continued usage of the English and/or Spanish Family Workbook for parents and guardians.
Does the Facilitator or Trainer Certification ever expire?
It does not expire if you attend the annual 2-day recertification conference in November and continue to implement Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ with fidelity. It is at this online conference that we annually reinstate certifications for facilitators and trainers for the upcoming year. Suppose you do not remain active by implementing the program and attending the conference. In that case, you will be placed on an inactive status where you will not be allowed to implement Nurturing Families™ until you attend another 18-hour facilitator training and/or the next recertification conference. If you are not a certified Trainer in active status, you are not allowed to train others.
I plan on implementing Nurturing Families™ with birth parents whose children are in foster care. Do you have any suggestions on how to use this program when birth parents will have limited access to their children every week?
Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ has proven to be effective with all individuals playing a parenting role in a child’s life. Parents do not need to have daily or weekly access with their children to successfully learn. All “Home Practice Assignment’s” (HPA) reinforce the lessons learned and can be done with children, self, or other adults. It is highly recommended that you provide parents and others parenting children with HPA’s to help them interact in nurturing and fun ways when they do not always have access to their children.
If the parents will not participate in the program, is it acceptable to work with the child only?
Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ was designed to work from a family systems perspective. Work extra hard to join with the adults in the family system before joining with the child. If this is not something you need help with, consult with your supervisor on ways to join with parents or call us at the Nurturing Families Center. Once you build rapport with the adults, you can ask for their permission to do sessions directly with their child on a regular basis. Remember the adults in a family system define family. They are where the true change is sustained.
How would you work with a family or parent who is not practicing in the home what has been taught in the sessions?
Nurture Us and Watch Us Grow. Be careful with language and attitude you have with a family that doesn’t yet trust. Sometimes people say, “the family is non-complaint or resistant”. This assumes that they do not choose to be on this journey. Possibly they have never been around nurturing facilitators that have empowered them and pointed out their strengths. Don’t give up on believing in people even if they do not currently believe in themselves. At first you may need to modify your approach and your teaching modality to fit the family, not to fit your schedule or and agency schedule. You’ve got this! Remember that you have passion for this work.
Do you have suggestions for using the program if a translator is needed for just one client? How best could we make it work to help them out if we don’t have a large Spanish speaking clientele?
The best and most equitable way to serve families that speak a different language other than English is to educate the translator on the philosophy and values so they may be able to provide a cultural translation not a direct English translation of the content. You can also ensure that the translator comes from the same culture as the family being served.
What happens when a family “no show” a lot? In some programs parents must attend all the sessions.
Begin by recognizing that rapport and more time may be needed with some families. Families are not used to participating in a structured nurturing environment, where transparency is key to building trusting relationships. If a family misses, reschedule as soon as you can in that same week. Also consider seeing them for individual sessions verses placing them in a group. Discuss with the family what you could do differently to better serve them.
What is the ideal group size for implementing Nurturing Families? Is there a specific group of people that this program works best with?
I would have to say a tertiary/treatment level because that is how I developed the program. I paid close attention to their needs and the needs of the Facilitators who have created a career serving our most vulnerable populations. Nurturing Families was also developed for families with children with special health needs, teen, Head Start, and populations struggling with mental health and substance abuse concerns.
Does the Nurturing Families Center™ have any curriculum that is aligned with child placing agency minimum standards for Texas Foster and Adoptive Pre-Service Training? For example, could someone attend one or more of the trainings, and would it encompass all the standards required for foster-adopt agencies in Texas?
Yes, Nurturing Families™ meet the standards for Texas Foster and Adoptive Pre-Service when they complete lessons from the 16 competencies. Co-parents are all individuals that consistently touch the lives of children. It can include Grandparents, Foster, Adoption, older siblings, teachers, and blended families.
It is hard to build rapport with some families that have zero access to online services and are not able to meet in person. Do you feel it is possible to work with a family strictly by phone with this program?
Yes, the Nurturing Families program has proven effective on the phone with some families.
I’m new to the facilitator role and find myself struggling a little bit relaying the material as a facilitator. What are some tips to help me improve as a facilitator?
Let us start by commending you for your vulnerability. Practice! Practice! Practice! Stick to the order of the lessons so you learn the intent behind the lesson sequencing. We are here to serve, let us know if you would like an individual facilitator coaching session. The first session is on us.
Is it best practice to relate to a client by saying “I know how that feels”?
This would not be our recommendation. We do not know how people feel. Everyone is unique in their feelings and life experiences. You can say “I am here to listen and try to understand”. Emotional presence means it is not about you. Empathy means you can feel the intensity of the feeling the other is having because you have felt that intense feeling in your body, throughout your life. You don’t need to have gone through the same experience to be empathetic and emotionally present. Practice acts of compassion from an empathetic place to get better at this.
How would you work with a parent or family that is open to receiving the services, but not receptive of the material provided to them?
We would listen more and talk less. Just spend time bringing joy to their heart. Try not to give advice or ask too many head questions. The “Guess Who” activity, Family Eco-Story and Parenting Styles are great discussions to start with. Discussions should be informal, and the intent is to reach and nurture the heart.
If doing group-based sessions, how many groups should a facilitator have at one time? If doing individual or home visitation sessions, how many families should serve?
Best practice recommendations for Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ for tertiary/treatment families is two groups a week. If you are only doing individuals or home visitation, start with 6-8 and once you know the content, you can do 10-12 families very effectively.
Most of the time, I work only with moms because dads are working. Is that good practice when facilitating, or is it recommended that both parents are present?
You can work with any family member that wants to participate, welcome all with a personal invitation, and always serve from a family system perspective. Remember, your focus is the family when working with just one member of the family.
How do you teach a parent that is overwhelmed?
Competencies 1-3 were created for families that are upset or do not necessarily want services from the beginning. Start by always completing these competencies that consist of 10 lessons. This helps with building rapport, emotional regulation, and self-awareness.
I do not have children myself. I know some parents are resistant to parenting instructions or recommendations from non-parents. How would you recommend handling situations where this may be a barrier to facilitating?
Excellent question, thank you for asking. The great thing about the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ is that it is more about teaching empathy than it is about teaching parents how to parent their children. Because you have a heart and care about others you can be empathetic and supportive just as well as anyone else.
This program is about relationships with self and others. In some of the content you will see where Sonya Thorn, the developer, focused on the relationship between parents and children, and she also focused on the relationship adults have with themselves. You can relate because you are someone’s child, and you can learn the content through an adult lens in a relationship with yourself, and others. There are 85+ lessons, and less than half are through a parenting lens. The majority apply to all people even if they do not have children. Youth ages 11-19 love Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ .
Where can I purchase the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ ?
We are happy to say that Nurturing Families™ 2nd Edition is complete and available in English and Spanish. Visit the Nurturing Families Center website and click on the “Curriculum” menu item or use this link https://nurturingfamiliescenter.com/curriculum/
You will have the option to place an order for the Facilitator Manual and the Family Workbook license in English and in Spanish. Once you have ordered the curriculum, the center will check their records to ensure you are an active certified trainer or if you are an agency, they will ensure you have active certified facilitators. Then you will receive an email with download instructions.
What if I do not receive a purchase email confirmation with the link?
With all technology, sometimes things go wrong. Firewalls at your agency may filter emails, or the confirmation email may go to a SPAM folder. You may have to ask your IT person to let our email go through your protected firewall by adding our domain (https://nurturingfamiliescenter.com) to their whitelist. If you continue to have problems, please email sonya@nurturingfamiliescenter.com.
How many times can I download the curriculum?
Once. When processing your purchase of the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ manual, it is important that you download the manual from your laptop or desktop. There are two ways to access the download purchased.
When processing the purchase, you will have the option at the end to download OR you can access the download from the email receipt that will be sent to the email address entered during purchase.
What if I cannot open the download or it's blank?
During your purchase of the Nurturing Families 2nd Edition™ manual, make sure you save it in a file that you will have easy access to. Go to the download file where you saved it on your laptop or desktop, and “open with” a web browser of your choice (Chrome, Explorer, Safari, Firefox, etc.) This will depend on your computer system and/or technology departments.
What if someone else is making the purchase for you?
When you have someone else making the purchase for you, please ensure that they enter your information and not theirs. Keep in mind that at the end of the purchase process, there will be an option to open up the download. Ensure that the person making the purchase does NOT open the download as this will affect your ability to access the download.
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